Just got home nice cold drink sitting in front of this screen and im thinking (whats love)Some say its sex, sex and more sex or is it a romantic candle lit dinner followed by an intimate time together arousing the inner feelings is it sending flowers on those special days or on any day.Is it getting married having kids working 5 days playing golf Saturday watching the footy Sunday and making love in between. Every one has a different understanding is that why its so hard to be compatable. Thinking of my mum and wondering is that real love for some one to carry a new life around for 9 months than lay in agony for hours to give birth and smile and love this new arrival.Then the real test comes they cry when your happy their hungary when you want to go to bed they make a mess in their nappies just when you sit down for dinner but you still smile and say you are the best thing that has happened to me I love you so much.They get a bit older and start being influenced by society they start to slip away but your love for them never leaves. Finally you decide on that second honey moon but your daughter comes home and says mum Im getting married you dont even hesitate you cancel your holiday because of that unselfish love. Mums love is that real love is our committment to love like that or do we avoid the hard yards do we only look for the enjoyment and thoughtfullness of our partner. Is it to easy now to just move from one relation to another or look for other ways to fullfill those desires. What is real love MUM I think you come so close thanks for being you thanks for that unconditional LOVE. I really dont know what true love is maybe i should have been a MUM....... IM THINKING