What is relaxing, is it going away on a desert island with absolutely no one around no mobile no work with the women of your dreams. Would you relax or would you think about work the kids what if some thing happened would any body find us. Maybe its just going away for a couple of days not far enough to worry about the kids they can find you if an emergency. I think you could possibly relax more under these circumstances. Not romantic enough possibly! dont know I think you can be romantic any where any time if you treat each other right. IM THINKING....