They say time heals all wounds they say if you truly love then hurts disappear quickly how much hurt can one bear. How much do you trust someone, how honest are you to be, what secrets do you keep if you love unconditionally is there any secrets does God know every thing, every thought every action and desire do we trust him 100%. I can't imagine keeping hidden secrets I believe they would eventually eat you up. When someone has an affair how do they still love their partner how do they still able to make love and enjoy it do they picture the other person or are they able to love both..... IM THINKING.